Lifestyle - After Sex Stir up (Fun Read)

Do you feel like going off to sleep after a lovemaking session or does a gratifying act in bed leave you feeling more energised and in sync with your sexual desires? While, most women complain about men turning around and falling asleep after performing in bed, for women, it's quite the opposite. Women generally feel aroused and charged up for some more intimate moments, a lovely conversation and some snuggling post a romp in bed.
A well researched study backs this contradiction in the sexual appetite of both sexes by elucidating the reactions of hormones that our brain releases during sex. It states that a man's brain goes into the state of rest, while a woman's brain is stimulated and more than willing to build an emotional connect with the man. But sadly, most men are too fagged out after their sex session to do any more. So, if you've been feeling unfulfilled after that erotic rendezvous, it's time to grab our guide to keep the flames burning even after you've enjoyed some hot sex. From cuddling, talking, eating and reading, we explore the sexiest things couples could do after sex to continue the romance and prolong the lovemaking session...

Talk about your sex desires Words speak louder than actions, so start an intimate conversation.

Be vocal about your sexual desires, your fantasies, things you enjoyed in bed and moves that turned you off. This will increase the comfort level when you come close the next time.

Have an odd meal

Couples often feel hungry after a steamy sex session. Cooking something scrumptious along with your partner in the kitchen can really be exciting. This will not only serve your appetite, but will also let you enjoy the aura of the fun you had in the bedroom. While cooking, you can perhaps smear food on each other's bodies and start another steamy session that adds to the passion play. Feeding each other also is an act of erotica that will help you enjoy some more moments of closeness.

Watch or read an erotic novel/film

You may mistake it as a foreplay act, but couples enjoy watching / reading something related to what they have done a while ago. Through such erotic means, they often tell each other about the new movements, positions and innovative ideas they could try in bed the next time around.


Snuggle, cuddle and enjoy a warm hug

There's more to just sleeping with your backs facing each other immediately after the act is over. Get cosy to keep alive the intimacy and ensure that it's not just the physical connection, but the emotional bonding as well that is enhanced. Increase physical proximity to each other through acts of kissing, touching, cuddling, snuggling, caressing and being tucked away in each others arms. Of course, a cosy sleep is what you can enjoy later with your partner.

Some ice-cream moments to cool you

You may be exhausted after a hot sex session, so how about some melting ice creams to cool you down? Just pour a vanilla/strawberry scoop in a bowl and put off your hands to rest. Let the ultimate moments of pleasure be felt and the love flames rekindled, as you both start licking the ice cream from the same bowl. You never know, it may energise you for another shot!

Switch on the lights and put on the music

Again, this may sound like a foreplay option, but when done after sex, it recreates the magic of romance. After the sexy moves in bed amidst dim lights, let the mind relax. Put on all the lights and start dancing to some soft music holding each other close and securely.

Take a hot shower together

Being intimate with each other under the shower can be a relaxing and sensual experience. Enjoy a hot, steamy shower and spend time soaping each other. It would not only refresh you both, but would also heighten the intimacy level.

Massage each other in a sensuous way

There's no better way of maintaining physical connection with your partner than with a sensual massage. There are instances when you feel really energised after sex, so a light back and shoulder massage can be soothing. While your partner is unwinding in a seductive way, you can feel the warmth of his/her body as you enjoy the massage.

Wake up for a morning tea

Having early morning sex is believed to be more joyful, healthy and heavenly. But most couples would again take a nap after that. If you had sex during the sunrise hours, don't dose off to sleep just yet, instead stay up up for a refreshing bed-tea and enjoy it together. This will pep up the romantic moments and allow you to talk with a fresher mind.

Get ready for the next round

Don't just get going for a second shot as soon as you're done with round one. Take a break! Drink some water to let your muscles relax, put on your clothes and start all over again. You may also indulge in a little foreplay to build up the mood.